Should i be upset that my husband wants to go a bachlors party at a strip club?

well husband wants to go to his friends bachlor's party at a strip club..but I don't think a father should be going out to those types of places..we've only been married for a year and a coupleof months but am I wrong? should I let him go? ooo and I want to go to the fiances bachlorettes party but he said no...idk what to say HELP!