!2 year old step son wets bed nightly. Need help..........?

just keep talking to them about it. you can even double team them with the grandparents and have a big family talk about what is going on. I can't believe that they don't see anything wrong with a 12 year old wetting the bed. I could understand if there was something physically wrong but since there isn't something needs to be done. try waking him up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom, and no liquids after a certain time. they even have these alarms that buzz when a child starts to wet the bed, I know a few people that used them on their kids and they say they worked really well. and since you are the wife you can make rules and tell your husband that things won't turn around if you both including his ex wife aren't a lot harder on the kids. I'm sure they will object but you can tell them that their way isn't working and they need to try something else. discipline is important I don't know why they don't know that. they need to start being parents.